• NOVA Show on Workplace Unhappiness: Do You Want to Be on TV, Talk About Interpersonal Issues at Work, and Get Free Coaching?

    I got this email the other day.  It sounds like PBS is doing a “reality TV”
    version of The Office — with
    coaching from experts. Contact them if you are interested:

    We’re looking for people who would
    be suitable for either of the following opportunities: 1. Do relationship
    issues in the workplace affect the running of your company? Do you want to
    improve your working environment, resolve conflict or improve communication?
    Would you like to go for coaching with a successful, well-respected
    organizational consultant? The “NOVA” show on PBS is making a
    documentary about relationships, and we’re looking for people prepared to talk
    honestly about the interpersonal challenges in their workplace. Coaching will
    be provided at no extra cost. This is an opportunity for you to resolve
    problems — perfect for small companies or start-ups or for larger
    organizations. If you’re interested in participating, or know someone who might
    be, please e-mail us, in confidence, and put “ProfNet – workplace
    relationships” in the subject line. 2. Unhappy at work? Are you currently
    having, or have you recently had, difficult relationships with your boss or
    co-workers? Is their behavior making your life miserable, and are you having
    trouble communicating? Would you like to go for coaching?

    PBS television is making a
    documentary about relationships, and we’re looking for someone to openly speak
    about their difficult interpersonal experiences at work, and to undergo
    coaching by a highly successful, industry-respected organizational consultant
    (which will be provided at no cost). We will be highlighting the impact that
    workplace relationships can have on emotional health. This is an opportunity
    for you to finally resolve your problems with your boss or colleague. If you’re
    interested in participating, or know someone who might be, please e-mail us, in
    confidence, with “ProfNet – workplace unhappiness” in the subject
    line.

    This series is being produced by
    Kunhardt Productions (
    www.kunhardtproductions.com).
    Contact: Talya Boston,
    relationshipsfilm@gmail.com

  • YouSendIt: An Easy Solution for Sending and Receiving Big Files

    YouSendIt
    I have been plagued for years with the problem of sending and receiving big files to people, and have often been left to struggle with the very user unfriendly FTP system — something which I still don't quite understand how to use.  Just a few weeks ago, I found out about a service called YouSendIt, which enables you to send quite large files (up to 100MB) for free. I think they charge you for bigger files and some premium services, but the free service isn't buried, it is the most prominent thing on their landing page and it is absurdly easy to use.  Note that I have no financial interest in YouSendIt and have no idea who works there or who owns it. I just think it works great, and if you are ever in that frustrating situation where you can't send or get a big file, this is the answer.

  • Great Customer Service Story at Timbuk2: The Right Way to Make Things Right

    I have complained here about bad customer service now and then, at HP for example, when they were so hard to deal with on my online order.  But in one of my very early posts, I argued that the test of an organization isn't just found in how often they mess-up, but also in how quickly and gracefully they respond when they mess-up.  This is really just a subset of one of my favorite single diagnostic question for any organization: "What happens when someone makes a mistake — or, I would add,  is linked to an error, failure, or set back?"  I had a very good experience that I talk about with Amazon in this regard.

    In this vein, my friends at Timbuk2 just sent me this little story from goodonpaper.org, which looks like it was just posted yesterday. It is written by Andy, freelance web producer and music promoter. Andy bought a Timbukt2 bag, and after a couple days, the velcro patch starting falling-off.  Andy (who apparently lives in the United Kingdom) wrote the people at Timbuk2 to ask for a repair. I love the answer:

    Since the international circumstances are what they are,
    and since I’m not all about weighing down a plane with broken product
    that we will simply look at and say “Yep, it’s broken”, and since I’m
    all about people passing on good intentions, this is what has happened,
    and what you need to do:

    I sent you a credit to replace the bag. No need to send it to us,
    your dodgy picture is proof enough (for me; this isn’t exactly “by the
    book”, so don’t expect all the customer service people to do this, k?).
    Order yourself a new bag.

    But!

    Bring your Velcro-impaired bag to a place that takes donations,
    whether that place be your broke best friend or a Goodwill or homeless
    dude down the street. Don’t throw the bag away! Give it away to someone
    who needs a bag, regardless of that bag’s Velcro status.

    No funny business, ya’ hear?

    Andy responded by putting the story on his blog offering to give the bag to a deserving owner, adding "You need to post in the comments with how you’ll continue the good
    karma passed on from Timbuk2 to me to the wider world through a random
    act of generosity."

    He already has some great responses.  To me, this is a great example of how, by erring on the side of trusting people and believing that good things will happen, everyone is elevated. 

    P.S I love the "No Funny business, ya' hear?" 

  • Dutch Version of The No Asshole Rule Published: De anti-huftermethode

    Dutch NAR
     I just got a nice note from Bram Gerrits, the translator of the Dutch version of The No Asshole Rule. Check out the cover above. Bram also reports that "We spoke before about the Dutch edition of
    'Asshole'. It's out – The Dutch title is "De anti-huftermethode" (The
    anti asshole method)."
    I am not sure what that subtitle means — I asked Bram for a translation. But if you speak Dutch, please let us know.  Go here to learn more!

  • Turn Off Tool for Tots: A Cool Tool for Your Kids

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    Our d.school students in Creating Infectious Engagement are going full blast.  Their final assignment is due Thursday and they are presenting results to executives from Microsoft, Google, and a host of other folks associated with the class and Climate Savers Computing.   I've already blogged about lovethe1yourewith and shutdownandprotect. But the other groups are working just as hard. I just got an email from Jason, who along with Tristha, Doug, and Amal, have developed this really cool thing called "Turn Off Tool for Tots," which is a big button you can download from their site so your kids can have an easy and visible way to turn-off their computers. The button is pictured above; go here to get it and read more. I love Jason's remark about how they are in full creating infectious action mode: "We're targeting parents with young
    children, and are in full go mode! Talk about AdWords and blogs and message
    boards and the works…"
    These students are jamming and I am most impressed.

  • lovethe1yourewith: Great Video and Great Message

    I've already blogged about shutdownandprotect, the website our students have put-up to encourage people to turn-off their computers.  As I've said, this is part of the efforts by our Creating Infectious Engagement class to spread messages and behavior that reduces the energy consumption that stems from producing and using computers.   Another student team is taking different approach, based on the idea that the energy required to produce a new computer is enough to run an old computer for at least 10 years.  So their idea is to get people to keep their computers longer. They have put together a great website to spread ways extend the life of your computer and it features one of the funniest student movies I have ever seen; it rivals Gus Bitdinger's Back in Orbit. Check out lovethe1yourewith, and make sure to watch the movie that stars Marylin and Dan — it is a little masterpiece. Dan also asks that I credit Jeff Keacher's deft video direction as well. 

    P.S. Note that we are working with an industry group called climate savers computing on this project. The companies involved in this organization include Dell, HP, and Lenovo. I am sure they are not wild about spreading the message that it is better to hold onto your computer longer, but the students make a damn good point.

  • The Firefox Browser Keeps Spreading Because It is Better Than The Rest

    I have written here several times about the Firefox browser.  Students in our Creating Infectious Action class have done great projects where they came-up with all sorts of great ways to spread the browser in 2006 and in 2007 (see The Sacred and the Profane, for example).  So I was delighted to see a big story in The New York Times today about Firefox, called An Upstart Challenges The Big Web Browsers. It now has over 170 million users, and most of this 170 million number reflects an active decisions by an individual users or tech person to not use Explorer (bundled with PCs and set as the default) or not use Safari (bundled with Apple and set as the default), and instead to download Firefox and set it as the default.

    Certainly, one reason that Firefox spreads is that has a large group of loyal and hardworking zealots who develop and do quality control for the product — and most aren't even employees of Mozilla (some are employees of other software firms and others work for free because doing so is an important part of their identity). For example, CEO John Lilly tells me that some 10,000 people each night check for bugs in the code.   But the other reason that Firefox spreads is — since everyone at Mozilla and the huge open source community that develops it are committed to excellence above all else — it is simply a better browser than the rest.  In addition to being absurdly easy to install and use,  one area where Firefox has consistently walloped Explorer is security.  I recall talking to an executive from a large financial services firm a couple years ago, and he told me that the security problems with Explorer were responsible for millions of dollars worth of fraud every year, but there had never been a single instance of fraud when customers used Firefox, and that it would save his company a lot of money if everyone just used Firefox. Interestingly, The New York Times story has a Microsoft executive seeming to admit that such security problems existed, at least until 2006:

    "Microsoft waited five years before releasing the sixth version of
    Internet Explorer in 2006. Dean Hachamovitch, general manager of
    Microsoft’s Internet Explorer group, says the company was focused on
    plugging security holes during that time."

    I admit I am biased, as I've known CEO John Lilly for a long time and think he is both wise and smart, and have been most impressed with founding CEO and now Chair Mitchell Baker every time that I have met her (See this McKinsey interview). But I am fond of lots of other people in Silicon Vally too, like the folks at Yahoo!, and I don't argue that their software is better than the rest.

    Firefox is about to release version 3.0. The Times claims it runs twice as fast as 2.0 and uses less memory. I look forward to downloading it.

  • My name is Tucker Max, and I am an asshole

    I am not making this up. This guy appears to be a professional asshole. His web site starts out:

    My name is Tucker Max, and I am an asshole.

    I get excessively drunk at inappropriate times, disregard social
    norms, indulge every whim, ignore the consequences of my actions, mock
    idiots and posers, sleep with more women than is safe or reasonable,
    and just generally act like a raging dickhead.

     Assholes Finish First

    He is apparently an object of admiration among a certain breed of testosterone poisoned young man.  His books include I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell (which is selling pretty damn well in paperback) and the forthcoming Assholes Finish First. (Note cover above… he seems very proud of being arrested).

    One of my favorite Jimmy Buffett lines goes something like "Some things in life are still a mystery to me, and other things are much to clear."  It is a mystery to me why, at least in some corners, people like Tucker Max are celebrated by others and take pride in their sexism and the damage they do to others. It is much to clear to me, however, that he is exactly the kind of vile person that I try to avoid at all costs.  And it is also clear to me that the world would be better off without the likes of Mr. Max.

    Also, I doubt Tucker Max has much interest in evidence, but the research seems to be that although there are some conditions when acting like an asshole has advantages (see "The Upside of Assholes"), they don't finish first in most cases.  Rather, it appears that finishing first — or at least being put in power — can make people dumber and turn them into insensitive jerks. The evidence is also crystal clear that people who act like demeaning and self-centered creeps damage the mental and physical health of people around them (as this blog and The No Asshole Rule show), as well as the performance of their teams and organizations.

    But I guess leaving a trail of damaged people  in your wake would be a source of pride rather than shame for a self-anointed certified asshole like Tucker Max.

  • Is Fear An Effective Motivator?

    I wrote earlier in the week about the efforts our students in Creating Infectious Action at the d.school are taking to spread the word about different ways to reduce the carbon footprint left by the production, distribution, and use of computers.  The students presented the current prototypes of the their projects yesterday in class, and I was taken with the range and quality of their ideas, which included a remarkably engaging and funny film meant to encourage people to upgrade the components of their older computers rather than buying a new one (it turns out that the energy it takes to produce a new computer can run a current computer for more than 10 years), a group that developed materials that third grade teachers can use to teach kids ways to reduce energy usage, another group that focused on ways to get parents and their young children to "mutually reinforce" practices that reduce consumption (like shutting down the monitor and computer, using power-saving settings), a group that is working on ways to get the most hardcore "green" types to take up the cause of power saving — such using social networking sites and developing cool green covers for computers that say "We all need sleep," and finally, the group that I wrote about last time at www.shutdownandprotect.

    Shutdown and protect


    This group continues to make good progress. Their site keeps looking better and better and it keeps getting more interesting content. They are running a contest right now, offering a $250 reward for the best best photos, images, and films pertinent to their challenge.  They've got a cute youtube film that they made, and other material. But I think one of the most interesting things and the site, and something we talked about in class yesterday a fair amount is the question of whether fear is an effective means for spreading messages and changing behavior.  Recall my earlier post, and their initial work, was in this vein, as they warned users of viruses and hackers that have a greater opportunity to do their dirty deeds when the computer is always on.  And I called my post "Shut the Damn Thing off or Else."  But there seemed to be arguments on both sides of question of whether fear was an effective message and motivator, with some of us arguing that it is an effective way to get attention and others arguing that it scares people away — indeed, this is an interesting kind of mood management argument I've seen in the marketing literature, that "fear appeals" often fail because people divert attention as we are all motivated to avoid situations and messages that put us in a bad mood. Another, more fine-grained argument that came-up was, following Huggy Rao's talk at our conference, that negative, vivid, and scary messages are useful for getting people's attention (Huggy argues that people need a "hot cause" to get them focused on a problem), but action doesn't happen unless people are then directed to more rational solutions that are presented in emotionally cool ways — which does reflect the direction that this team sees to be going.

    In any event, you might want visit the new and ever improving version of .shutdownandprotect.  You can vote on and discuss whether fear, guilt, logic, and humor are the most effective ways for the team to spread their message and leave them a comment if you want.  And the movie and message are cool.

    I will also try to get links to some of the other students' projects over the next week — they have a week to go, and they could benefit from your comments and suggestion, and any help you can give them to spread their messages

  • Leader’s Apologies: Doing it the Right Way

    Yesterday, my post on Mea Culpa described how there is
    some trend in hospitals for doctors to admit and apologize to patients for
    mistakes. The initial evidence suggests this practice saves money because it
    reduces litigation costs, and money aside, is a more emotionally constructive
    process for both doctors who make the mistake and patients and their families
    who are damaged by such errors.  Unfortunately, whether we are talking
    about doing surgery or leading an organizations, or just about anything else in
    life, there is no doing without mistakes, and no learning either.  As
    Diego and I like to say, failure sucks but instructs.

    Continuing this theme, there is also growing evidence that leaders of companies
    who choose to apologize for mistakes may actually help their careers and their
    firms by apologizing in the right way.  Although most mistakes and
    setbacks seem to provoke leaders to cover them-up, claim that it wasn’t their
    fault, to point fingers at others, say”no comment,” or perhaps say
    something mealy-mouth like “I misspoke, but it really wasn’t a
    mistake”  I especially love the term “mistakes were made,” as it almost seems to be admission of error, but the leader or politician
    in question never quite associates the term “mistake” with “I” or
    “we.”  It is as if errors somehow have made themselves, without
    any human action or involvement.   Consider the story below for a
    different tactic.

    The Chef Executive ran a story in 2003 about a rather
    nasty statement made by then Goldman Sachs CEO Henry Paulson Jr. (now the U.S. Treasury
    Secretary). Paulson’s error and recovery is instructive, and the plot line is
    reminiscent of the Hew York Times article on doctors that I wrote about
    yesterday. I quote:

    ‘Henry Paulson, Jr., chairman
    and CEO of Goldman Sachs Group, recently demonstrated how an apology from the
    top can help repair the reputations of both a chief executive and his or her
    company. During a question-and-answer session at a Salomon Smith Barney
    conference in January, Paulson seemed to imply that between 80 and 85 percent
    of Goldman Sachs’s employees were irrelevant to the company’s success. “I
    don’t want to sound heartless,” the CEO said, “but in almost every
    one of our businesses, there are 15 to 20 percent of the people who really add
    80 percent of the value. I think we can cut a fair amount and not get into
    muscle and still be very well-positioned for the upturn.

    Paulson’s comments drew an immediate and overwhelmingly negative reaction.
    Rather than wallow in explanations as to what he really intended, or suggest
    that the comment was taken out of context, Paulson faced the music. In a voice
    mail to all of Goldman’s 20,000 employees, he acknowledged that his remarks
    were insensitive” and “glib.” In other words, he apologized.’

    Stories like these are heartwarming to hear. But there are still plenty of
    CEOs, lawyers, and PR firms who will advise leaders that that they should never
    apologize, and also some theory in psychology that suggests self-serving
    attributions — taking credit when things go well and blaming others and
    outside forces when they go badly — is an effective impression
    management.  BUT a series of studies by psychologists suggest that
    managers and leaders who apologize when things go wrong, report what they’ve
    learned, and then convey how and in what way the organization’s direction will
    change as a result not only enjoy more favorable reputations than leaders who
    point fingers at others and external events, there is also evidence that their
    firms do better over the long haul.  There seems to be two reasons this
    happens, one more objective the other more subjective.  The more objective
    part is that by admitting mistakes and updating their behavior, this means the
    leader and his or her team is learning along the way.  Jeff Pfeffer and I
    have (borrowing from psychologists and philosophers) called this “the attitude of wisdom,”
    which means have the courage to act on what you know and the humility to change
    course when new and better information comes along that you are heading in the
    wrong direction.   The second theme is that one of the main
    challenges for leaders is to convince insiders and outsiders that they are in
    control of the organization — which is a big challenge because — although
    there is a lot of evidence that leaders get lots of credit and lots of blame
    for what happens to their organizations — there is also a lot of evidence that
    they have only modest control over organizational processes and performance. As
    such, one way that leaders fuel the illusion — and to some extent the reality
    — of control is by convincing people that when they do something good, good
    things happen to the organization and when they do something bad, bad things
    happen to the organization.   This may all sound a bit weird, but as
    we show in Hard Facts, there are few situations where
    leadership actions appear to be able to affect organizational performance by
    any greater than 10% (small, young companies appear to be an exception in some
    studies).

    So to return to apologies, there are not only sound conceptual reasons for
    leaders to make them, there is also some interesting evidence to support
    apologies in this context.  Here is an excerpt from Chapter 8 ofHard Facts
    that provides a nice summary of major studies — and also indicates that,
    although apologizing works for managers and leaders, it may not be effective
    for politicians, at least if they want to get elected. Here is the excerpt, plus
    I left in the citations for those who want to dig deeper.

    ‘[R]esearch
    on winning vs. losing U.S. presidential candidates shows that – in 80% of
    elections between 1900 and 1984– winners avoided talking about negative events
    and, when setbacks were raised, winners were more likely than losers to deny
    blame and point fingers at others and events they couldn’t control.

    On
    the other hand, it turns out that company executives are different than
    politicians.  Leaders who claim that “it isn’t my fault” and “ I couldn’t
    have done anything about it” aren’t doing themselves or their organizations any
    favors over the long haul.  Deflecting blame might help them keep their
    jobs for a time, enjoy better mental health, and persist in the face of
    failure.  But ducking the heat shatters the illusion of control. 
    Investors, customer, employees, and the press conclude that leaders who don’t
    take responsibility for mistakes and setbacks lack the power to make things
    better.  Controlled experiments by Fiona Lee and her colleagues show that
    hypothetical managers who took responsibility for bad events like pay freezes
    and failed projects were seen as more powerful, competent, and likeable than
    managers who denied responsibility. 

    The
    wisdom of acknowledging blame is confirmed by two studies that tracked Fortune
    500 firms over long periods.  Both were careful studies designed to rule
    out alternative explanations.  Gerald Salancik and James Meindl examined
    18 Fortune 500 firms over 18 years.  They found that, especially in firms
    with wild swings in performance from year to year, performance was superior
    down the road when executives attributed both good and bad
    performance to internal actions.   Similarly,
    Fiona Lee and her colleagues examined yearly stock price changes in 14
    companies over a 21-year stretch.  They found that taking blame for
    setbacks wasn’t just effective in companies with wild performance swings. In
    years when senior management blamed their firm’s troubles on internal and
    controllable factors, stock prices were consistently higher the next year,
    compared to when executives denied responsibility for setbacks.

    What do you think? Should leaders
    apologize when things go wrong?  If so,
    what is the most effective way to do it?  

    Here are some of the key references:

    Lee,
    Fiona., & Robinson, R. (2000). An attributional analysis of social accounts:
    Implications of playing the blame game. Journal of Applied Social Psychology;

    Lee, F., & Tiedens, Larissa.
    (2001). Who’s being served? “Self”-serving attributions and their implications
    for power. Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes, 84:254-287.

    Salancik,
    Gerald., & Meindl, James (1984). Corporate attributions as strategic
    illusions of management control. Administrative Science Quarterly, 29, 238-254.

    Lee,
    Fiona, Peterson, Christopher, & Larissa Z. Tiedens (2004)
    Mea culpa:
    Predicting Stock Prices from Organizational Attributions. 
    Personality
    and Social Psychology Bulletin.
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