• Pink Slip: Maureen Rogers’ Great Blog

    Right after The No Asshole Rule was published, I wrote a bit about Maureen Rogers' blog Pink Slip and she wrote about the book.  But I had not visited much recently until the other day.  I not only was reminded was reminded of her sharp wit and delightful writing style, I realized that her blog had got even better over the last year or two. I was just delighted by her post Throwing at the Batter about workplace "situations that should result in a return bean-ball, a suspension, or a good old-fashioned bench clearing brawl – but never do" such as throwing team members under the bus and the vile practice of unnecessary fire drills. Maureen blogs mostly about workplace issues, but somehow ties it to everything from Grapenuts to When Hockey Moms Go Bad.

    Maureen has a strong and original voice, a sense of fun, and makes creative connections among seemingly unrelated ideas — but after you listen to her, it all makes good sense.  Maureen, I am sorry to have been away so long, but I will be back as a regular.  

  • Don’t Let Them Touch Your Soul

    In The No Asshole Rule, and in my asshole management tips, I talk about all sorts of different ways to engage with and undermine assholes, everything from direct confrontation to building coalition against them, to embarrassing them.  But I also point out that learning the art of indifference and emotional detachment, to not let them tough your soul, is at times the best thing you can do to protect yourself.  I mostly have recommended this strategy for people trapped with assholes who, at least for now, they can't escape.  But I was fascinated by a story in today's Wall Street Journal called "Are Misbehavin" about all the awful rude things that theater goers do these days — not because they do so many rude things, but because of the way that one performer dealt with a remarkably rude audience member:

    During a Saturday matinee of the Holocaust drama "Irena's Vow," a
    man walked in late and called up to actress Tovah Feldshuh to halt her
    monologue until he got settled. "He shouted, 'Can you please wait a
    second?' and then continued on toward his seat," recalls Nick Ahlers, a
    science teacher from Newark, N.J., who was in the audience. He says the
    actress complied.

    Ms. Feldshuh says she typically pauses when she's interrupted. She
    doesn't recall the incident, which she says may be evidence of the Zen
    attitude she's cultivated onstage. "I have no negative energy about it
    to even remember," she says.

    I am in awe of Ms. Feldhush's ability to not let such awful behavior touch her soul, to protect her mental health and ability to perform without getting rattled.  Her comment about not having the negative energy to even remember it is just lovely, and to me, a sign of great focus and mental health — indeed, as I've discussed here before, people who ruminate over slights and remain bitter (compared to those who forgive others) generally suffer better mental health. 

    Yet, part of me wonders if a better strategy is still to fight back, to not let those assholes get away with their dirty work, as in this example from the story:

    Earlier this year, Patti LuPone lit up gossip blogs when she broke
    character in "Gypsy" to scream at an audience member taking pictures.
    Ms. LuPone says her frustration boiled over. "I had just had 10 months of pointing out to ushers texting,
    pointing out to ushers videoing, pointing out to ushers somebody on a
    phone," she says. "I just freaked."

    I wonder what thoughts people have about when it is best to "go Zen" versus fighting back, and if there is a constructive middle ground (perhaps going Zen during the rudeness, but then having a system where the asshole is not allowed to buy a ticket again, much like the "blacklist" that some major airlines use to ban asshole passengers). 

    P.S. Also check out this story on LA Theatre Etiquette — good fun.

  • Sutton’s Law, Orginality, and Wisdom

    I got a note from a friend who was concerned that he had given a talk where he gave me credit for the term "attitude of wisdom," but when a summary was published, it was presented as his idea. It is great to have friends who give you credit for ideas and, as I think is evident in this blog, I try to take great care to describe the sources of my ideas (not only to give people credit, but also because readers may want to dig in deeper and may also disagree with my interpretation).  But my friend's note reminded me of something that I've thought a lot about over my earlier career as a pure academic and more recently as someone who tries to bridge the worlds of research and practice — the tensions and pitfalls around giving other people credit and claiming that one has an original idea.

    On the one hand, as my friend was so careful to do, I think it is important to try to acknowledge where your ideas come from — for reasons already enumerated here, to give credit, because people may want to learn more, and because they may want to challenge your interpretation.  I also think it is important to acknowledge others because it reflects how the process of developing academic and applied ideas in the behavioral sciences operates: There are few if any new ideas, and creativity happens largely through moving old ideas from where they are known to where they are unknown and blending them in new ways (See Andy Hargadon's book to learn more).  So most claims — by academics or gurus — that they have developed entirely new ideas are suspect, and as James March once told, me, most claims originality reflect arrogance, ignorance, or both.  I got sufficiently tired of all the false claims of originality — especially among so-called  management gurus — that (both here and in Hard Facts) I once proposed "Sutton's Law" after the now defunct Business 2.0 was kind enough to call me management guru:

    "If you think that you have a new idea, you are wrong.  Someone probably already had it.  This idea isn’t original either; I stole it
    from someone else."

    On the other hand, trying to figure where an idea came from — when it was first developed and who developed it — is often an impossible task.  The best (and most enjoyable) example of this challenge is seen in the lovely old book called On the Shoulders of Giants, where sociologist Robert Merton tried to trace the origins of the phrase " "If I have seen farther, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants." This is often attributed to Newton, but as Merton shows on his amusing and impressive scholarly journey, nailing down the origins of an idea is often impossible and (following March's comment and Sutton's Law) the only thing that is usually safe to assume is that if someone claims they invented an idea out of whole cloth, they are suffering from arrogance, ignorance, or both. 

    So to return to my friend's concern about the phrase "The Attitude of Wisdom," I think I first saw it used by Karl Weick, who attributed a psychologist named John Meacham, who credited (among others) psychologist Erik Erikson and "Socrates, as expressed by Plato."  And on and on it goes. So I don't know where it came from, but I do know it wasn't my idea.

    I am left with two practical lessons. First, trying to figure out the sources of an idea and taking care to give others credit for ideas leads you to think about an idea more deeply and protects you from arrogance (or being seen as arrogant) even if you may never find the real source. Second,  when it comes to the every day challenges of management, and life in general, perhaps the most important thing is to follow (Jeffrey) Pfeffer's Law:

    "Instead of being interested in
    what is NEW, we ought to be interested in what is TRUE."

    As usual, Jeff cuts to the heart of the matter.

  • Apes, Humans, and The No Asshole Rule

    The discussion of baboons in Harvard Business Review, as well as here and at the HBR site, reminded me of some intriguing work by anthropologist Christopher Boehm about whether humans (and other apes) are "prone to dominate or live harmoniously with each other."  The puzzle that Boehm tried to untangle was why, given that chimps, gorillas, and Bonobos (with which we share over 98% of the same genes) are so distinctly hierarchical and dominated by alpha males; yet studies of human hunter-gathers show that they are so distinctly egalitarian. Boehm studied 50 small, non-literate cultures to see how egalitarian they were, and why. He found that they were quite deliberately egalitarian- – and believed so strongly in maintaining political parity among adults, that males who turned into selfish bullies or who just tried to boss around everyone too much we were treated as "moral deviants."  Their peers responded aggressively by shaming, ostracizing, and ejecting them from the group. 

    Boehm's interpretation of this intolerance for bullying and self-aggrandizement is fascinating, both in terms of the evolutionary basis of the no asshole rule and the tug of war that you see constantly in society between the numerous people prone to grab power and goodies for themselves and the numerous people that fight back to stop them (think of the current battle over executive pay).  Boehm's interpretation is that human hunter-gathers were actually quite similar to their fellow apes in that "they were prone to dominate each other," and thus "if these people had not so vigilantly worked against inequality, they would have soon turned hierarchical."  To put words in Boehm's mouth, people in these tribes aggressively enforced the no asshole rule as a deterrent against excessive dominance.

    Boehm goes on to make a fascinating statement about we humans and our closest relatives that I think explains a lot about the behavior we see in so much of society: "We must ask, then, why a species so inclined to domination has been motivated to insist that power be shared so equally. And here, I believe, is the answer: Just as all four of the aforementioned species have strong propensity to domination and submission, so do they naturally resent being dominated."  In other words, we are both attracted to power (and to the powerful) but hate being pushed around and have a desire to parity (or more egalitarian relationships). 

    I've been thinking about this a lot this morning because these tensions — which clash the point of being irreconcilable– help explain why there is so much inconsistency in human social behavior.  It also explains why being a leader requires walking a tightrope. On the one hand, people want a leader who they see as strong and in control (and leaders want to dominate their followers), but followers also want a leader who is unselfish, benevolent, and egalitarian.  Striking just the right balance here, day after day, isn't easy for any leader — and as I wrote about in the HBR article, the dynamics of power make it even tougher because of the toxic tandem (people in power tend to become oblivious to their followers; while followers tend to watch their leaders actions very closely).  Yet to walk the tightrope, leaders need to be especially in tune with how their people react to every little move they make.

    P.S. You can read Boehm's article here in Greater Good or if you really want to dig-in, check out his book Hierarchy in the Forest.

  • Starting a Movement, Learning to Lead: The Palo Alto Pedestrian Mall Over at Harvard Business Review

    Julia Kirby wrote a great post over at the Harvard Business Review blog about the impressive progress that Amrita
    Mahale, James Thompson, Svetla Alexandrov, and Dave Hughes made over the past couple weeks in starting a movement and debate about whether to close the main drag in downtown Palo Alto and turn it into a pedestrian mall.  As I
    wrote last week, this has sparked a heated and serious debate in the community.  And a lot of press coverage.  Today, it was picked-up by Julia over at HBR, who focused on Dave Hughes (an Army Captain and Iraq veteran who is teaching at West Point next year), and what he learned about leadership from the experience. 

    I have had the pleasure of teaching Dave in three different classes, and he is a delight (Also, talk about a no excuses guy — he did make it to class when he spent the night before in the hospital, but asked to be excused on the day his wife had a baby!).  He also has wonderful leadership skills, as the article with Julia implies.  But I also want to make sure and emphasize that the other members of Team Wildfire, Amrita, James, and Svetla did a marvelous job as well — although we also understand that Dave's experience in Iraq (he flew helicopters and coordinated hundreds of missions) definitely makes a great story.  If you are curious, check out Starting a Movement, Learning to Lead. Also, I think I learned a lot more about leadership from watching Dave in action than he ever learned from me and other Stanford faculty.  In any event, as always, anything that Julia writes is a delight to read.
  • I Hate People: A Book You Will Love

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    Writing a business book that is funny and useful is REALLY tough to do.  The Peter Principle qualifies, so does Up the Organization, and so does my all time favorite business book on anything, Orbiting the Giant Hairball.  But most books that attempt this trick end-up as big flops. A brand new book is coming out this week that is so funny and useful that belongs in the esteemed company of such masterpieces.  I  Hate People: Kick Loose from the Overbearing and Underhanded Jerks at Work and Get What You Want Out of Your Job presents a compelling recipe for navigating through the kinds of people in the workplace that make us all miserable.  Authors Jonathan Littman and Marc Hershon call these jerks, losers, and time-suckers "The Ten Least Wanted." Examples include "Stop Sign," "Flim-Flam," "Bulldozer," and one of my least favorite "Smiley Face." The book is filled with all kinds of testsfor assessing how much you hate people, how many of these difficult people you must deal with, and more important, it is filled with great advice about how to survive and thrive among these creeps and losers.

    They are also doing a host of funny and effective stuff to give readers a taste of the book, or to help people who read the book dig into the ideas more.  Check out their blog, I Hate People… But It's Nothing Personal, especially check out their silly conversation about how "Smiley Face" bosses express insincere passion as they screw-up people's lives. I also loved their post on Brits Have the Shortest Fuse.  And if you are really lucky, you can get an "I Hate People"  Do Not Disturb sign from them somehow.. I brought them home to my three teenagers on Friday, and now one hangs from each of their doors. 

    Jonathan and Marc have written a great book, I believe, because they have different skills, but see the world in the same way. Jonathan is an experienced writer and author, notably joining Tom Kelley to write their IDEO-inspired books The Art of Innovation and Ten Faces of Innovation, and Jonathan has done a lot of serious journalism too,.  In fact, he has spent a great deal of time over the past couple years writing about steroid scandals in sports.   Marc is a wildly creative guy, perhaps most well-known for is work inventing the names of famous things such as the BlackBerry and Swiffer, but he also does and teaches stand-up comedy, produces cartoons for newspapers, and writes screenplays for movies, especially for the Hallmark channel… to name just some of the creative stuff he does.  The book is written in a consistent and persistently funny voice that reflects the quirks and skills of these two very talented people.

    Finally, I Hate People has one of the funniest endorsement's I've ever seen. Comedian Dana Carvey says "Ironically, I hate the people who wrote this book."  I would also add that much as Arthur Bell's blurb suggest, this is the rare book that is clever and funny — as you laugh along with Jonathan and Marc, you realize that their analysis and solutions are actually deeper and more useful than the piles of management books out their that take themselves far more seriously — indeed, when I read it a few months back for the first time when they asked me to do a blurb, I was just blown away by how clever their ideas were for dealing with, coping with, and triumphing over the parade of creeps and idiots who populate too many workplaces.

    Amazon just started shipping it today, you might want to grab a copy. 

  • Handshakes and Job Interviews:Study Shows it is Especially Helpful for Women

    Photo_handshake All of us are taught from a young age about the importance of having a firm handshake and looking people in the eye.  There is plenty of folklore out there about how important it is too shake hands properly, and most of us notice when someone is awkward about it, does it weakly, or has sweaty palms. Nonetheless, I always am intrigued by how clever researchers can be about studying such mundane things, and how they often generate insights about things in life that we all take for granted.  A great example is a 2008 study of handshakes conducted by Greg Stewart and his colleagues at the University of Iowa, which was published in the Journal of Applied Psychology in 2008.  They had local managers and executives give mock interviews to 98 undergraduate (50 women, 48 men) job seekers, and then the interviewers give the students feedback about how they might improve their interviewing style, and also give the researchers a rating of how likely they were to hire the student. The interesting twist — which makes this study strong from a methodological standpoint — was that neither the student interviewees or corporate interviewers knew that Stewart and his colleagues were doing a study of handshakes.  The ratings of the students' handshakes were measured completely independent of the interviewer's ratings of whether or not they would hire the candidate — although doing a handshake with the candidate was part of 45 minute or so mock interview.

    The researchers somehow set things up so that, in the course of meeting the interview and going through the mock interviewer, the undergraduate shook hands with five different "raters" (and the job interviewer).  I can't describe this as well as the researchers, so let me show you the paragraph from page 1141:

    "The raters shook hands while greeting each participant, either before or after the mock interview, so both interviewees and interviewers were unaware that handshakes were being evaluated. None of the handshake evaluators served as an interviewer. Two raters greeted and shook hands when a participant arrived for the mock interview. Participants were then introduced to a third rater, who shook hands. After the mock interview, a fourth rater greeted participants, shook hands, and introduced them to the fifth rater, who shook hands. Within 5–10 s of shaking hands, raters excused themselves from participants and completed an evaluation form. To avoid priming interviewers to pay undue attention to the handshake, we did not ask them to provide explicit assessments of the handshake."

    Each of these five hand shakers was trained to rate the quality of the handshake on 1. completeness of grip; 2. vigor; 3. strength; 4. duration, and 5. eye contact during the handshake.  There was much agreement (inter-correlations between .68 and .85 among the raters).  The researchers then (after using introducing fairly extensive statistical controls) looked for the link between the handshakes and the interviewers ratings of whether they would hire the candidate (and remember that the interviewer didn't know it was a handshake study and had a lot of other kinds of interaction with the undergraduate). 

    Despite all these other factors, the researchers found a significant (if modest) independent effect of handshake quality on whether the interviewer would be inclined to hire the student. To me, the most interesting finding pertains to women.  The researchers found that, on average, women had weaker handshakes than men. Probably because their are different expectations for men and women, women's weaker handshakes did not lead to weaker hiring recommendations (In fact, overall, the interviewers were more positively disposed to hire women than men).  BUT those women who had firmer and stronger handshakes, and used more complete grips, benefited more than men who had firm handshakes and complete grips — the researchers suggest that this effect may have been seen because men are expected to have firm shakes, and because it is more unusual among women, those women with firm handshakes were more memorable.  In other words, having a weaker handshake didn't seem to hurt women, but having a stronger handshake seemed to help them.

    I like this study because it confirms common sense and business lore, and adds an interesting twist — if you are a woman, make sure you've got a great handshake. it may help you gain an advantage over both male and female candidates.

    P.S. Go here to see the complete reference and abstract.

  • Free PDF of “How to Be a Good Boss in a Bad Economy” to 98 Readers

    Jun09_Sutton_crop Harvard Business Online charges a pretty penny for articles and cases; indeed, although their prices annoy me at times, I also admire them because they produce and publish a lot of high-quality and original content, and actually get people and companies to pay for it — something that many other organizations are now struggling to do.  The author in me likes that, even if the consumer in me does not.  One nice thing they do for authors is to create a link that allows us to give away 100 copies of a PDF version to anyone we want.  As I said earlier in the week, I want to give the copies to readers of Work Matters.  If you want a copy of "How to Be a Good Boss in a Bad Economy," please go here to download it:

    http://custom.hbsp.com/b01/en/implicit/p.jhtml?login=SUTT052609S&pid=R0906E

    Also, I would be grateful if you limited yourself to a single copy so that more people can get one. Finally, when these run out, you can read the opening of the article and buy the rest here; and if you want to see an interview with me about the article at the McKinsey site, check out Good Boss, Bad Times.

  • Good Boss, Bad Times: Video Interview at The McKinsey Quarterly

     I've written here about my new Harvard Business Review article on  "How to Be a Good Boss in a Bad Economy."  Right after I finished the article, I was lucky enough to be at conference where Rik Krikland had a camera crew. Rik runs the The McKinsey Quarterly and a bunch of other related stuff at McKinsey; as some of you may remember, Rik was the long time editor of Fortune magazine. Rik asked if I wanted to do an interview about something, and we both thought that the forthcoming HBR was most timely. So we did the interview, which they call Good Boss, Bad Times –you can see it for free if you follow the link.  The article contains more nuances than the interview, but Rik is such a
    good interviewer that he gently guided me to provide a pretty accurate
    compact summary of the ideas.

    In addition to the interview, there was some interesting "inside baseball" with this interview as HBR and the McKinsey Quarterly in some ways compete for attention (although they do have different goals in many ways). But rather than getting weird and uncooperative, Rik and the new HBR editor Adi Ignatius were wonderfully cooperative about the whole thing.  They were colleagues at Time-Warner, as Adi was at Time magazine for 13 years, so that helped.  McKinsey waited to post the interview until the HBR article came-out — and the HBR article links back to the interview (They are acting just like bloggers, kind of cool to see).  My thanks to everyone at The McKinsey Quarterly and Harvard Business Review for playing so well together, and for being so fun and inspiring to work with.

  • When Layoffs are Immoral: Randy Cohen in The New York Times

    Sunday's Times had an essay by "ethicist" Randy Cohen that made a remarkably black and white argument about when it is and is not ethical to layoff employees.  I had a mixed reaction to the article.  On one hand, I agree that too many organizations use layoffs as a first or early resort and that there are too many times when senior executives slash employee jobs just to protect their own pay –and there is an argument from some research that companies that do layoffs at the first whiff of trouble are at a competitive disadvantage.  But I think that Mr. Cohen's arguments strike me as too moralistic and too naive at times.  This really bugged me:

    "This is not to assert that Caterpillar can never downsize. Companies
    must be able to shrink as well as grow, to adjust to changing
    circumstances. (A restaurant with fewer customers needs fewer waiters.)
    But prudent staffing must be part of an ongoing strategy, not a panicky
    response to an economic downturn."

    The economic collapse that led to layoffs at Caterpillar wasn't predicted most industry experts and economists, let alone by most corporate leaders.  I think that simply calling layoffs at Caterpillar a "panicky response" is sort of like criticizing people for a "panicky response" to Tsunami.  I am sure, in hindsight, that executives might have been better prepared, but I think Mr. Cohen does not show quite enough understanding of how hard it is to manage during times of harsh uncertainty. 

    I was also a bit disturbed because,although I think that many companies do not show enough loyalty and humanity toward their workers, Mr. Cohen seemed to saying that any leader or company that did not first try practices short of layoffs was immoral:

    "Before adopting the ethics of the overcrowded lifeboat, before tossing
    thousands of non-millionaires over the side, gentler — and more
    equitable — methods must be tried. Everyone’s hours might be reduced,
    diffusing the pain. Dividends to stockholders can be eliminated. Pay
    cuts can be instituted company-wide, with the deepest reserved for the
    highest paid (that is, those most able to endure them)."

    That "must be tried" really bugs me.  In the case of Caterpillar, I wonder whether the workers, shareholders, and analysts would have agreed with the strategy of reducing hours or more severe pay cuts — management works under many constraints that sometimes make such actions difficult.  Also, as Cohen notes, Caterpillar executives have taken some cuts (but perhaps not enough).

    I spent much of my early career studying organizational death and decline, and am working on the topic again a bit, especially in my current HBR article.  When I first studied declining and dying organizations in Michigan in the early 1980s, I thought that layoffs were misanthropic and any company that did not spread the pain equally was immoral.  But as I have seen the difficult and complex set of constraints that executives face in organizations of all kinds and sizes, I have learned to avoid pointing the morality finger at those leaders who do layoffs — there too many times when it puts the remaining business at risk or when because of immovable constraints (such as union contracts, work rules, or the nature of the work) cost-cutting short of layoffs is not feasible.  There are also other times when, to save the company, or at least a lot more jobs, a company has too many workers with the wrong skills, and although perhaps they should have realized it sooner, they get in a position where a restructuring is needed to change the composition of the workforce, and layoffs are the only viable path. There are even times when paying no dividend may end-up hurting the stock so badly that layoffs are a better path for the common good over the long haul. 

    Layoffs do massive damage to people, I am not defending them as humane acts, but there are too many times when they are the lesser evil.  And if they are the best choice NOW because of PAST managerial incompetence, that is horrible, but life does not have a rewind feature.

    I do agree with Mr. Cohen that some CEO's out there are not taking there fair share of the hit, although even then I worry that if we take the finger-pointing too far here that executives won't have the right incentives for managing organizations well on the both the way up and on the way down the economic cycle — and everyone will suffer as a result. 

    Finally, perhaps it is my weird bias in life, but when people claim to be more ethical than others, it always makes me squirm because so often they end-up taking the same –or worse –actions than those they demonize.  As my father-in-law likes to say, "when people talk about ethics, I hide the good silverware."  I agree with many of Mr. Cohen's points, but I guess his moralistic tone bothers me above all else. Too many ethical and unselfish executives I know who have done layoffs have suffered mightily as they tried to balance efforts to keep their companies healthy — or at least alive — and to save as many jobs as possible in the wake of the current awful and largely unexpected mess.  Mr. Cohen is mighty quick to trumpet his own moral superiority when discussing executives who did not plan for these extremes or who believe that –for the good of the whole — layoffs rather than spreading the pain more evenly are the best strategy. 

    I wonder, if he walked a mile in their shoes, would he be as ethical or as competent?   Morality, like management, is something that is a lot easier to talk about than to get right every time given the messiness and uncertainty of the world as it exists (rather than the world we wish it would be).