• How to Protect an Asshole

    This story about Holland & Knight documents how the leader of a large law firm protected — and then promoted — a partner with a well-documented history of sexual abuse.  When this jerk was later promoted to a senior management position, there was an outcry within the firm, and he was removed from the position. But the offender still was working at the firm last time I checked: This is the kind of thing that gives lawyers the reputation for being assholes, especially males. I will refrain from a summary: You have to read it yourself.

    By the way, a few years before this incident, the firm was bragging about their "no jerk rule."  I guess they were using talk as a substituite — or perhaps a smokescreen — for action.

  • Online Asshole Management

    “The
    No Asshole Rule” focuses on how traditional organizations can –- and do –- enforce
    norms that stop people from acting like demeaning jerks. But, especially since
    I starting blogging, people keep telling me about how similar rules are
    expressed and enforced in online communities.

    A
    few months back, my teenage son showed me an intriguing chatlog from (I hope I
    am getting this language right) a chat channel that he is part of where people
    talk about massively multiplayer online
    games (MMOGs). The log starts with an
    incident where a person is banned for soliciting people to sell him drugs. Then a conversation among about 10 people starts
    about some of the worst “asshats” and “assholes” they’ve ever encountered and
    how quickly they had been kicked-off, including “the one who started the
    argument about using gay as an insult.” The group then decides to establish “a
    three strikes rule,” where “We’re going to start using temporary silencing as
    warning shots for people causing an abundance of trouble,” and after three
    incidents, ban them permanently.

    I started asking my friends who play online games if
    they have such a rule, and I learned that, for example, that in World of
    Warcraft, some “guilds” write down and enforce quite detailed rules, which
    often include guidelines for expelling people who act like jerks. A gamer who
    read this blog also sent me to several links on Penny Arcade
    (a site for gamers) that talk about “The Golden
    Rule of Internet: Don’t be a Dick,
    ” which list things that can get you banned from MMOGs and chat groups. I
    don’t understand all these guidelines, as many have to do with game play, but I
    do understand why they ban pornographic images, racism, and my favorite item because
    it is so subtle and so compelling:

    Trolling 
    This has a working definition of "attempting to be as
    annoying as possible while still technically obeying the rules," and it’s
    not the way to go about getting attention. There tends to be a thin line
    between being annoying and being funny. Those who cross it–whether through a
    lack of familiarity with the forums or as sad, twisted, bid for attention–will
    be banned.

    Another person wrote me about how people in the
    Wikipedia community, specifically on Wikimedia, also talk about
    and apply the “Don’t
    be a dick”
    rule. Apparently, the guideline is:

    Don’t be a dick. If people abided by
    this, we wouldn’t need any other policies. This is a corollary of ignore all
    rules, and most other rules are a special case of this one.

    And I like the added advice:

    If you’ve been labeled as a dick, or if you suspect that you may be
    one, the first step is to realize it. Ask what is causing this perception.
    Change your behavior and your mode of presentation. If needed, apologize to
    anyone to whom you may have been a dick. It’s okay! People will take notice of
    your willingness to cooperate and will almost always meet your efforts with
    increased respect.

    This
    last bit of advice mirrors my observations from the off-line world: That the
    first step to recovering from being an asshole is to realize that you are
    one. And when people realize that you
    are taking authentic steps to reform, they often show remarkable understanding.
    In fact, some you may have seen those buttons and refrigerator magnets that say
    "Admitting
    you are an asshole is the first step."

    As
    an organizational researcher, I am fascinated by how explicitly these norms are
    stated and how – although there are arguments and ambiguities – about what it
    means to be a online jerk, there is a remarkable amount of consensus as well.  

    PS:
    I am just starting to learn about how online groups engage in “asshole
    management” and enforce other important norms, so of any of you could point me
    to other places where I might learn more, I would appreciate it.

  • Clicks-n-Bricks: New Stanford d.school Class Sponsored by Wal-Mart

    I’ve
    spent much of the summer working with a great team to design a new course
    called Clicks-n-Bricks:
    Creating Mass Market Experiences
    , the
    lead-off in a series of project-based classes taught by Stanford’s Hasso Platner Institute
    of Design
    (“The d.school”)this year. Building on what we learned from last
    year’s class on Creating
    Infectious Action
    , this fall class will focus on designing on-line and
    off-line experiences for customers and employees, as students will work with
    real executives, industry experts, and companies to find solutions to real
    problems.

    Just
    like the teams that we ask students to work in, our team is interdisciplinary too.
    The core team is Michael
    Dearing
    Perry
    Klebahn
    , Liz
    Gerber
    , and me. All played key roles in Creating Infectious Action, with
    Liz as a core member of the teaching team, and Michael and Perry serving as
    coaches. Michael has a Harvard MBA and has had a varied and intriguing career in
    industry, working at Disney and, most recently, about six years in a senior
    marketing role at eBay.  And one of the
    coolest – and I bet hardest – things he did was serving as Director of Filene’s
    Basement in downtown Boston 
    for three years. Perry, a member of the core team that runs the d.school and graduate
    of the Stanford product design program, invented and spread the popularity of
    the modern snowshoe. After he sold Atlas, his snowshoe company, he ran sales
    and marketing at  Patagonia for several years and now serves on their board.
    Liz Gerber is also a graduate of the Stanford
    Product Design Program, and has held jobs including middle school teacher, toy
    designer, and helped start a software firm during the dotcom boom.  Liz is now working on her doctorate in
    Management Science and Engineering at Stanford, and has done extensive ethnographic
    research on the design process, which she is studying and interpreting with
    social psychological theory. Liz also
    has a great deal of experience teaching product design classes and
    improvisation.

    In
    addition to the core teaching team, we will pull in experts to help students at
    key junctures in the class, including former senior HP executive and sustainability
    expert Debra Dunn,
    Mozilla’s Asa Dotzler
    who – among other amazing things – co-leads the Spread Firefox project,
    Julian Gorodsky
    , our “d.shrink” who will teach students group skills and
    help them work through group dynamics issues, and my collaborator Diego
    Rodriguez
    , who we hope to get involved in teaching and coaching students
    about the design process.

    As you can see, putting on one of these
    d.school classes is a lot like putting on a high school musical, there are lot
    of exits and entrances to manage.

    The
    class will focus on two major projects to get student
    teams out into the real world to wrestle with real problems. The first project is on “improving the theme
    park experience.” The teams will visit local theme parks, identify customer
    experience problems, and brainstorm and then design solutions. The second
    project, the capstone, will entail using the design process to work with
    Wal-Mart on its sustainability initiative (see the cover story of Fortune this week) to spread knowledge,
    network connections, and enthusiasm among Wal-Mart employees about this
    initiative. Wal-Mart executives and managers will work with students to explain
    the company’s commitment to sustainability, guide students efforts to engage
    Wal-Mart employees more fully and effectively in this effort, and (along with
    other experts), give feedback to students about their work.

    I
    will keep you posted about developments as the class unfolds. If you are a
    Stanford Masters student (we love diversity, so the class is open to all
    majors), please click on this
    d.school page
    and use the link to get on the list for the application
    process.

    It
    should be a fun and wild ride. 

     

  • Lovaglia’s Law is a Hypothesis, Not a Fact

    I’ve been delighted with how much response there has
    been to Lovaglia’s
    Law
    , and how thoughtful many of the comments have been made on this blog
    and elsewhere.  I want to add something
    about the difference between “evidence-based management” and what might be
    called “slogan-based management” or “faith-based management.”  Michael Lovaglia makes a strong argument that
    the law holds and, as I wrote, there are also sound psychological reasons – the
    increased public attention, pressure for accountability, and stress – why important
    decisions are less likely to be evidence-based than unimportant ones. BUT even
    though Michael calls this a law, remember, it really is just a hypothesis –
    sort of a well-argued and
    strong opinion that is weakly held.
     Michael is designing some studies to test the
    law. Perhaps other academics will test it as well (Or perhaps it has already
    been tested, at least partially, in studies I don’t know about).  This means that, as charming and compelling
    as the law is, if the research shows that the law doesn’t hold, Michael – and I
    – will kiss this pretty idea good-bye. This commitment to facing the facts and
    to discarding dearly held beliefs is a hallmark, perhaps the hallmark of
    evidence-based management.

    That is the difference between an evidence-based approach
    and so much of the snake oil that is sold out there. Note:

    1. The law is treated as something
    that might be true, not as a proven fact.

    2. The law is being subjected to
    empirical test.

    3. The stronger the evidence uncovered
    to support the law, the greater the faith in it will be, and the weaker the
    evidence, the weaker the faith will be.

    These are, of course, very simple tests. But it
    astounds me how often they are not applied.  Exhibit 1, as I’ve written here before, is corporate
    mergers
    , but the list goes on and on.

  • Bad Assumptions and Escape from a Submarine

    The
    importance of identifying and testing the assumptions that determine how
    organizations and technologies are designed sounds so obvious – yet we’ve
    learned that, when we don’t press managers, consultants, and researchers
    (including ourselves) to take a hard look at their deeply held beliefs about
    what they are doing and why, they will unwittingly do horrible – or at least
    very expensive – things over and over. In the management arena, the assumptions held by people who design
    organizations are often dangerous half-truths. So, for example, assuming that human beings are always selfish and can’t
    be trusted is dangerous because, if you operate on that assumption, you will
    design a fear-driven organization that will encourage people to act that way –
    and never give people a chance to earn trust.

    Another area is teacher incentives and student
    test scores. Politicians and school
    administrators often argue that teacher’s pay should be linked to student test scores. That all sounds wonderful, until you start
    examining the basic assumption: If teachers work harder, their students will do
    better on standardized tests. Unfortunately, if you dig into this assumption, you will start realizing
    that teachers have little or no control over which students they teach, how
    many students are in their classes, what levels of resources they have, and
    what materials they use.  So, even if
    financial incentives do actually encourage teachers to work harder (another
    suspect assumption), increasing motivation doesn’t increase student performance
    much, if at all, because teachers don’t have enough control over the work. And,
    at least in the short-term, incentives don’t affect teacher’s knowledge and
    skill.

    That
    is why studies going back nearly 100 years show that teacher incentive pay has
    little if any impact on student achievement scores. It does have other predictable
    effects: teachers and school administrators will try to change things that
    they can control: Like cheating on the tests to get their students higher
    scores, either by changing the forms themselves or telling students the right
    answers. And, as I’ve heard from researchers and parents in the Chicago school
    system, teachers respond to these incentives by moving their weakest students
    into special education classes (which are overflowing with kids who really
    aren’t well-suited to those classes) and when they have a gifted child who
    should probably skip a grade or move to a classroom or school of gifted kids,
    they squelch efforts to take those kids out of their classes. In other words, the incentive pay does affect
    teacher effort: They focus on ways to get their test scores up that they can
    control, even though those changes have nothing to do with student learning,
    and in fact, may actually undermine learning. Yes, incentives do drive behavior, but sometimes the wrong kind (See
    Chapter 5 of Hard Facts for an
    in-depth discussion of incentives).

    What
    does this have to do with escape from submarines? Perhaps the clearest, and most troubling,
    case I know of a deadly assumption (that was held for over 50 years) has to do
    with the problem of escaping from a sunken submarine. C.B. “Swede” Momsen was a colorful and
    charismatic U.S. Naval officer who unwittingly perpetuated false and deadly
    beliefs about the best way to ascend to the surface. Check out The
    Terrible Hours
    to read about this maverick. Momsen was deeply disturbed by
    several incidents where submariners were trapped at depths of 100 to 200 feet beneath
    the surface, with no apparent means for escape. They all died waiting for a rescue that never came. “Swede” dedicated years of his life to
    developing the Momsen lung in the 1930’s, a complicated apparatus that –- by
    the time development was completed — included a mouth piece, a breathing bag,
    a canister of soda lime, goggles, a nose clip, and a marker buoy attached to
    500 feet of rope that had a knot every ten feet. The idea was “Escaping submariners were to
    pause every ten feet, where they found a knot, so as to ascend no faster than
    fifty feet per minute.”  The Germans had
    used a similar device called the Dräger breathing set, going back to World War
    I.

    The
    perceived need for these cumbersome devices – and the actions of people on
    submarines –were based on the assumption that simply exiting the submarine and
    swimming to the surface meant certain death. But research done after World War II showed that this assumption was
    false: at depths of less than 300 feet, a trapped submariner’s best chance of
    survival was a “free ascent.”  As Ann
    Jensen’s 1986 article Why
    the Best Technology for Escaping from a Submarine is No Technology
    reports:

    The solution was a British suggestion. Inflate a life jacket while
    in the submarine. The jacket would be designed with a flapper valve to release
    the expanding air as it carried its wearer upward. “Once you’re out, you start
    blowing as hard as you can blow,” said Schlech. “The jacket takes you up and
    out of the water like a shot. We called the system ‘Blow and Go.’ There was a
    lot of opposition at first, but eventually it got rid of the Momsen Lungs and
    all the other equipment, and it’s still in use in depths of up to three hundred
    feet.”

    Moreover,
    Jensen reports that German experience going back to World War I showed that –-even
    without a life jacket — simply exhaling while making the ascent is effective
    as well, although such experience was not known or was ignored as research focused
    on developing better devices for escaping submarines, even though none were
    needed. To quote Jensen’s article:

    The case of the German U-57, which hit a
    mine north of
    Scotland
    in 1915, is typical. The U-boat went down in 128 feet of water with twenty men
    alive inside. The air in the submarine quickly filled with chlorine gas as
    seawater flooded the boat’s electric batteries. The fumes burned the men’s eyes
    and made breathing nearly impossible. Their ears ached as pressure increased.
    They found only four Dräger units aboard; believing their situation hopeless,
    two of the men shot themselves. Then the captain decided to make one last,
    desperate effort to save the remainder of his crew by opening a hatch.

    To his amazement the hatch flew open and he was drawn out and
    upward. He had no time to inflate his life jacket or even to take a breath. As
    he recounted later, “I had no desire to inhale, but to forcibly exhale so that
    I constantly had to blow air out.” The air in his lungs had expanded as he
    rose. If he hadn’t exhaled, his lungs probably would have burst. The rest of
    the crew followed him; seven survived the ascent and were later picked up.

    The
    upshot is that –- whether you are talking about teachers or technology –-
    stopping to identify and test your assumptions is something that isn’t done
    often enough, and can save a lot of money and a lot of lives. And a related
    lesson, as I’ve written about before, is that the most effective people and
    organizations are often masters
    of the obvious.

  • CEO Influence and Lovaglia’s Law

    I mentioned Rakesh
    Khurana
    ’s book Searching
    for a Corporate Savior
    in my last post. After I wrote it, I realized that
    Rakesh may have found an instance of Lovaglia’s Law:
     "The more
    important the outcome of a decision, the more people will resist using evidence
    to make it."

    Rakesh’s book is so compelling because he blends
    impressive quantitative data with insights from his in-depth research on how
    senior executives are selected and evaluated by corporate boards. Rakesh described how directors of huge
    companies had enormous faith in the power of CEOs that went beyond anything
    that could be justified by any research, how they spent vast amounts of money
    and time searching for new corporate saviors, and paid out huge sums to
    executive search firms and to the CEOs they ultimately hired. Following Lovaglia’s Law, perhaps because
    these decisions were so important, Rakesh found that when he asked corporate
    directors if CEOs are worth all that money, they reacted with anger and
    surprise, as if he had raised a taboo subject. He found that they had
    “virtually religious” convictions on the subject, which led them to dismiss any
    evidence showing that CEO quality is not a primary and powerful cause of company performance.
    My hunch is that they would have been more receptive to evidence about more
    trivial decisions, such as what colors to paint the walls or what music to play
    in the elevators.

  • CEOs Matter Less Than You Think

    Today’s
    Wall Street Journal contains an
    entertaining story about the recent financial setbacks suffered by hedge fund
    manager Robert Chapman. It makes for good reading, as Mr. Chapman is quoted as
    saying that “We serve eviction notices to incompetent executives” The Journal reports how Mr. Chapman once
    described the 78 year-old Chairman of a company as a “helpless Mr. Magoo-like
    character" and its CEO as “The Dummy.” And they tell us that “Mr. Chapman’s office features a toy guillotine, a
    shark skull and other symbols of gruesome destruction.”

    Whether
    Mr. Chapman is an effective intimidator and turn around artist is unclear at
    the moment, but what struck me about the story was that it was yet another
    indication that CEOs, or perhaps CEOs and their top teams, are treated as the
    most powerful factor that drives organizational performance. The message in the business press – and from
    headhunting firms too – is that if things are going good, than it is because a
    company has great leadership. And if things are going badly, then it is largely
    because of bad leadership – so if you replace the CEO or perhaps the senior
    team (serving them with “eviction notices”) then everything will be fixed. As we show in our leadership chapter in Hard Facts, a related conclusion is
    accepted by economists like Michael Jensen, who argue that if you get the CEO’s
    incentives “properly aligned” with organizational goals, then, boom,
    performance will improve because they will be properly motivated to act in the
    firm’s best interest.  Indeed, many experts who draw
    on economic perspectives like agency theory complain that the problem with CEO
    pay is that they are paid well when things go wrong or right, and if companies
    would just provide CEOs with the right incentives, then the CEO pay controversy
    would – or at least should — go away.

    The
    problem with these arguments is that they all are based on the assumption that
    CEOs have a lot of influence over performance. After all, if CEOs didn’t have much influence, tying their rewards to
    performance or getting rid of bad leaders wouldn’t matter much. It is
    instructive to compare this unwavering faith in the power of CEOs with the best
    evidence. Yes, leaders do have some
    impact, but far less than most people think. My colleague Jeff Pfeffer published a paper in 1977 in the Academy of Management Review showing
    that leader’s actions rarely account for more than 10% of the variation in organizational
    performance, and often, account for much less. Subsequent studies have confirmed this general pattern. Leaders do have
    a somewhat stronger effect on performance when companies are small and
    young. But a host of experiments and
    field studies show that the business press and other observers consistently
    give leaders far more credit and far more blame than they deserve. Apparently this
    happens because people are brainwashed by cultural myths about the power of
    leaders and because it is requires less mental effort – and is more comforting
    – to view, say, Procter & Gamble as AG Lafley or Oracle as Larry Ellison, then to think about the long list of factors that actually cause performance.

    Jeff
    Pfeffer emphasized that leaders have, at best, modest control because there are so many
    factors that are simply impossible for them to control – economic conditions,
    industry structure, fixed costs, what competitors do, what happened before the
    CEO took over, and what a nuances of what the other hundreds and thousands of
    people in the company do. A few years
    ago, I was talking with Spencer Clark, a former GE executive who had led a
    large business during Jack Welch’s reign about the limits of CEO power. Clark  remarked “Jack did a good job, but everyone seems
    to forget that the company had been around for over a hundred years before he
    ever took the job, and he had 70,000 other people to help him.” Indeed,
    although CEOs can certainly make a difference, especially founders, many of the
    greatest companies – take Toyota
    or Procter & Gamble – have succeeded because they have such great systems
    that it makes it easy for competent people to succeed, not because of the work of leaders with magical powers.

    Another
    reason that leaders don’t have as much effect as most people think is what
    statisticians call “the restriction of range” problem. Although, as Mr. Chapman
    says, evicting incompetent leaders is no doubt important, some researchers –
    notably Stanford’s James March – have argued that nearly all people that are seriously
    considered for senior management positions are competent (as they are heavily
    screened, trained, and all have shown that they can do the work) so it doesn’t
    make much difference which finalist you choose. March, the master of challenging conventional wisdom with logic and
    evidence – and his charm – once wrote:

    Management may be extremely difficult and important even though
    managers are indistinguishable. It is hard to tell the difference between two
    different light bulbs also; but if you take all the light bulbs away, it is
    difficult to read in the dark. What is hard to demonstrate is the extent to
    which high performing managers (or light bulbs that endure for an exceptionally
    long time) are something more than one extreme end of a probability
    distribution generated by essentially equivalent individuals

    March’s
    perspective is bolstered by evidence that corporate boards place irrational
    faith in magical superstar CEOs, as a savior who will ride in on a white horse and transform a struggling company
    into an industry leader. See Rakesh
    Khurana
    ’s lovely book Searching
    for a Corporate Savior
    for some of this work.

    What does this all mean in practice? There are a
    lot of nuances, but the most important implication is that bringing in
    a new CEO is rarely a magical quick fix. Executive search firms love CEO
    changes –especially external hires – because they make money on each search and
    hire. But the weight of the evidence suggests that bringing in a new CEO
    doesn’t help that much, often makes
    no difference at all, and can even do moderate damage.

    Venture capitalist Steve Dow is one of the few
    people in industry I’ve talked to who actually seems to get and act on this
    evidence. As we wrote in Hard Facts:

    Start-ups have notoriously high failure
    rates, no matter how well they are managed. Dow has been a general partner at VC firm Sevin Rosen since 1983 and served on
    dozens of boards over the years. He tells us that many board members,
    especially young venture capitalists who lack operational experience, are quick
    to talk about replacing the CEO at the first hint of trouble. Dow asks them,
    “Now, suppose you were CEO, what would you do differently than the one we have right now?” Dow
    says that most of the time they can’t think of much, if anything, they would
    change. Like everyone else, until they think about it carefully, these venture
    capitalists can’t separate the CEO’s performance from the firm’s performance.

  • The No Arsehole Rule Down Under

    I just got a lovely note from Shawn Callahan, who is the founding director of an Australian firm called Anecdote, which works with companies on learning and organizational change problems.  I was delighted to hear Shawn’s report:  ‘Just thought you might like to know that we have been pushing the "No asshole
    (arsehole in Australia) rule" on our blog for a few months as part of a campaign
    to reintroduce humanity into the workplace.’ I would be curious to hear other news about strategies that are being used to reform and expell demeaning jerks from workplaces down under.

    I especially liked the list that Shawn alerted me to from Pam Slim’s blog "Escape from Cubicle Nation," an open letter to senior executives that contains ten tips for treating employees with dignity and respect, My two favorites are:

    Spend a moment walking around the halls of your company and look at your employees.
    I mean really look at them.  Don’t just pat them on the back and pump
    their hand while looking over their head at the exit door. Look
    directly in their eyes.  Imagine what their life is like.  Who is
    waiting at home for them?  What are the real consequences to their
    health, marriages and children when they have to work yet another 13
    hour day?

    Don’t ask for your employees’ input if you are not going to listen to it.
    I have facilitated offsite meetings that lasted for days where
    well-intentioned managers brainstormed and argued and edited and wrote
    flip charts until their hands turned blue.  They sweated over creating
    something that was relevant and for a brief period of time actually
    were proud of what they accomplished.  Until a month later when I heard
    that you scrapped the whole thing in favor of a plan cooked up by an
    outside consulting firm.  This does not only completely waste smart
    people’s time, it guarantees that you will have hostility and
    resentment the next time you ask for creative input.

    Great stuff! And I look forward to following Anecdote’s progress down under, and Pam’s blog is pretty cool.

  • Lovaglia’s Law

    Michael Lovaglia
    is a Professor and Department Chair in the Sociology Department at the
    Iowa. Michael wrote Jeff Peffer and me a charming and
    insightful email a few weeks back about evidence-based management that I can’t
    stop thinking about.

    Michael proposed:

    Lovaglia’s
    Law: The more important the outcome of a decision, the more people will resist
    using evidence to make it.

    I can’t stop thinking about this law because, although it
    sounds like a joke, if I think about the basics of sociology, economics, and
    psychology, many signs are that Michael is right.  Sociologists are really obsessed with power
    and status. The upshot of much of their work is that, the more is at stake, the
    more that people will be motivated to push for solutions that increase their
    power and decrease other’s power – and not motivated to take steps that help
    other people or other groups, let alone that help the system as a whole.

    The concept that drives much economic research is
    that people strive to do what is in their individual self-interest (Indeed, some
    people claim that there is no underlying theme in Freakonomics.
    I always beg to differ because each chapter is a brilliant example of how Steve
    Levitt has applied the concept of self-interest in a different setting.) Clearly, the more important the decision, the
    more people involved stand to lose and gain, and the more strongly they push for outcomes that enhance their
    self-interest rather than are best for everyone involved.

    Finally, psychologists have documented many ways
    that human decisions are flawed, swayed by biases rather than rationality (see
    Max Bazerman’s book on decision-making)
    whether the decision is important or not.  But if you look at research on what happens to
    human beings when we are under stress, a host of studies show that we cling
    even more tightly to what we know and can do best, and that is especially hard
    for us to process unfamiliar ideas and to change how we do things when we work under severe time pressure and public scrutiny or when the stakes are high.

    A partial, and paradoxical, solution is implied by
    Karl Weick’s work on small wins (see my last post): If important decisions
    provoke so much greed, distress, and irrationality, it might be best to try to reframe big decisions as small ones –- to fool yourself and others into
    believing that what seems big is really small!   I
    confess, this is one of those ideas that sound really dumb when you start applying it: How would you convince the
    players in the
    Lebanon
    nightmare that, actually, the terms for the cease-fire really aren’t all that
    important?  Pretty stupid, huh? But it may prove more practical in everyday decisions made by organizations: who to hire,
    what business strategies to pursue, what products to release, and so on. Perhaps framing
    them as less important to performance than they actually are can increase your success
    rate!

    I throw out this weird idea for fun; I am not sure
    I believe it.  I also confess that part
    of me doesn’t want to believe it even if it is true.  But if Lovaglia’s Law and my fretting about
    basic behavioral science theory are right, then it just might work.  Perhaps it is time for a management book called something like "It Doesn’t Matter: The Power of Indifference." I think I am joking about that, but I am not sure.

     

     

  • Calling an Asshole’s Bluff

    Dennis Howlett tells a great story
    on his blog
    AccMan Pro
    about a production director who had the courage – and skill –
    stand-up to his asshole boss, and the long-term positive effects that it had on
    the company. Here is an excerpt:

    I recall one place I
    worked where the weekly management meetings were little more than an excuse for
    the MD to set traps for those he considered underperforming. It mattered not
    what the target for the day said, they were ‘wrong’ in his eyes. It was what I
    imagine to be hell on earth.

    The most courageous
    thing I witnessed was the production director –an able and articulate
    gentleman – stand up part way through one such tirade and say in a quiet but
    firm manner: “Excuse me but I don’t have to defend myself against this kind of
    behaviour. If you wish to question the facts, then provide me with a basis for
    argument and we’ll go from there. But if you choose to continue in this manner,
    then you can accept my resignation right now.” You could almost hear the
    unspoken ‘here-heres’ from the assembled team.”

    That single
    interjection changed things a lot around that company. What struck me at the
    time was that I didn’t have the courage to do the same. I experienced shame –
    one of the worst human emotions. What amazes me today is that I can still
    recall the words, circumstances, weather for the day, the colour of everyone’s
    suit and the fallout. Cathartic? Perhaps. Life changing – sure.

    I would add two things to Howlett’s
    inspiring story. The first is a warning about the risks of such action. I’ve
    studied, worked with, and talked with many people over the years that have
    challenged, or thought about challenging nasty, incompetent, or unfair bosses,
    or about challenging a group of people in power. I always encourage people to act on their
    convictions, to do what they believe is right. BUT I also suggest that they
    consider and develop some exit options first. After all, the unfortunate fact is that – while we glorify successful
    rebels, deviants, and revolutionaries – their typical fate is failure and often
    banishment. If you are going to stand up
    to those in power, it isn’t a bad idea to have a plan if you fail.

     My second point is that victories against
    assholes like this that happen in a single, dramatic, moment are lovely to tell
    and hear about. We all love the idea of chalking up a massive victory with a
    single bold stroke. But the most
    effective methods for undermining and reforming a nasty boss are often far more
    subtle and take far longer. People who
    are short on power but long on patience often triumph through a strategy of
    small wins, piling up one seemingly trivial, gain after another until, until
    the balance of power eventually shifts in their favor. So even if you are planning a dramatic moment
    like the courageous production director in Dennis Howlett’s story, your chances
    of a big victory will be higher if you do a lot of little things to set the
    stage first, like having a series of conversations with everyone else who will
    be in the room before you make your stand –- to find out who agrees with you
    and who does not, to mobilize support, and to persuade people – one at a time
    — that the time has come to take action. 

    PS: I will eventually write a blog
    about how people who feel oppressed by assholes can adopt a strategy of “small
    wins” to fight back and sustain their mental health even when they are trapped
    with demeaning jerks that they can’t escape (at least for the time being).  But this is just one place where small wins
    can help. If you want to read a
    compelling argument, track down a copy of Karl
    Weick’s
    "Small Wins: Redefining the Scale of Social
    Problems,"
    which was published in the American Psychologist in
    January, 1984. It is one of the most important and inspiring academic papers
    that I’ve ever read. I’d create a link to it, but I don’t think that would be
    legal! Also check Debra Meyerson’s Tempered
    Radicals
    for a great application of Weick’s notion of small wins.