Category: Bosses

  • Lessons from Nightmare Bosses and a Blurb for “High-Performance Teaming for Douche Bags”

    That is the title of an interview that Leigh Buchanan did with me on Good Boss, Bad Boss, which just appeared in the October INC. I have know Leigh for some years, since she was at Harvard Business Review. She is a great writer and editor.  Check out this piece she did about two entrepreneurs who spent five years building "eco adventure lodge" called Tranquilo Bay in the rain forest in Panama.   Leigh also did one of the best, and probably the funniest, interview about The No Asshole Rule, which was called "The Bully Rule Book." 

    The new interview similarly reflects Leigh's great skill at taking my disorganized babbling and making me sound coherent.  Here is a taste of the interview, two of the questions and answers:

    Is it harder for bosses whose reports range from the highest- to the lowest-level employees?

    It is harder. Because the people you oversee will have different motivations. With all due respect, this is where Jim Collins is full of shit. I have a friend whose family bought a chain of movie theaters. Maybe all that get-the-right-people-on-the-bus stuff applies to the managers of those multiplexes. But a couple levels down, you're dealing with teenagers who are going to be in the job for a year or less. My friend said there are four things you want those people to do: show up to work, look decent, not make out or get stoned while they're on the job, and not steal. If you can find people like that, you have a successful business.

    Work may be the most important thing in your value system, but that may not be true for those around you. Especially if you have all the equity, and to the people around you, it is just a job.

    Also, Leigh ended the interview with a pretty funny twist… I guess I was saying the s-word a lot during this intervew:

    So can I count on you to write a blurb for my forthcoming book, High-Performance Teaming for Douche Bags?

    Sure. I can do it now. "This is good shit."

    You can read the rest here; it provides a pretty good summary of the main ideas in Good Boss, Bad Boss — not just the lessons from nightmare bosses:

    P.S. A couple of other media things have hit including this short interview in Newsweek, which apparently accompanies a gallery of CEOs Behaving Badly.  Also this nice review of Good Boss, Bad Boss just appeared in Risk Management.  These are also nice, but Leigh's interview is the most fun and goes into the most depth.

  • A Cheeky Review in the Financial Times

    The Financial Times is a UK based business paper, but is also widely read in the U.S.  I wrote a piece for them awhile back on "Separating the Best CEOs from the Dolts" and they just came out with a positive, but classically "cheeky" English review by Peter Whitehead. My reaction is that "I wish I could write like that," but I think I was raised in the wrong country!  It is headlined "A timely guide to being a better manager" and here is how it ends:

    Having made the case repeatedly that managers need to
    consider others in everything they do, Sutton’s perhaps counter-intuitive
    conclusion is that they hav
    e to accept the role is all about themselves: their
    own behaviour is infectious and will be copied; everything they do will be
    watched and noted.

    Is this good advice? The world’s worst boss, David Brent
    of The Office TV comedy series (renamed Michael Scott in the US series)
    believes exactly that, with his constant “look at me” antics. But he is utterly
    lacking in common sense and compassion
    .
    So perhaps the best advice would be
    that anyone without these traits should please do everyone a favour and steer
    clear of management. 

    I confess that I sometimes react to reviews — even positive ones — by whining "the reviewer doesn't quite get it." Mr. Whitehead clearly did, which means he read the book carefully.

    P.S. An interview with me about the book just came out at The Invisible Hand if you are interested.

  • Good Boss, Bad Boss Talks on September 30th and October 1st

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    I am writing this from Seat 8D on an Alaskan Airlines flight as I am giving an internal talk today at Amazon, which they call a "fishbowl."  It should be fun.  I also wanted people to know that I am giving three local talks in the bay area that are open to the public this week.  One is Thursday the 30th, which I am giving a Silicon Valley Commonwealth Club talk, but unfortunately, that is sold out.  I am also giving a talk at Xerox PARC that evening, which is free. Go here for details.  Finally, I am giving a talk at 12:50 on October 1 in a speaker's series at Stanford ran by some folks in the Computer Science Department that is also open to the public — go here for details. I hope to see you at one of these talks. I have been having a lot of fun discussing these ideas with people who work in diverse jobs and industries.

  • The Russian Cover for Good Boss, Bad Boss

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    I have no idea what is says, but looks cool.

  • A Story About “Professional Asshole” Tucker Max: He Claims To Be A Great Boss

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    Tucker Max has just published Asshole Finish First, as shown above, which reports more of Max's tales of drunkenness, sex, and general obnoxiousness.  It is a sequel to his bestseller I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell, which was made into a film that I did not see (but that got bad reviews).  When I first read Max's proud claim that he was a professional asshole, I did an incredulous post, as I was — and remain — amazed that anyone would be proud to be an asshole because, as I have said here before, if you an asshole and you finish first, your are still an asshole, and therefore a loser in my book.  

    The odd thing about writing that post a couple years back was the reaction that I got from Tucker Max and a guy who worked for him.  I describe it in the new chapter in the paperback version of the The No Asshole Rule:

    The weirdest email exchange I had about bosses
    was with Tucker Max and one of his subordinates.  Max is the author of the
    bestseller I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell.  His next book is called Assholes
    Finish First.
      Max’s website says:

    My name is Tucker Max, and I am an asshole.I get excessively drunk
    at inappropriate times, disregard social norms, indulge every whim, ignore the
    consequences of my actions, mock idiots and posers, sleep with more women than
    is safe or reasonable, and just generally act like a raging dickhead.

    When
    I wrote on my blog that Max “appears to be a professional asshole,” he wrote me
    several friendly notes and explained that he really wasn’t an asshole as I
    define it. He further claimed “In five years, no more than ten, you are going
    to do a profile of me and declare that I am a model boss, a CEO that all bosses
    should base themselves on in some form or other.” The boss theme also came up
    when one his underlings wrote to say that Max has “been a mentor to me and I
    don't think ever violated that trust by being an asshole.”  So, even a guy
    who has made a ton of money being what I would call a professional asshole
    denies he is a certified asshole by the standards here — and he has at least
    one very loyal follower who admires Max because he has never acted like an
    asshole boss!  

    Pretty weird, huh?  Tucker, I am sorry, but I don't think I am ready yet to hold you up as a great human-being of any kind — but I guess you have another seven years to prove me wrong!

  • The Good News About Good Bosses

    It is mighty easy to focus on how much better the world's bosses could be, and on the plight of all the unhappy workers out there who work for lousy ones.

    And it's not necessarily a bad thing to focus on that. We know that in organizations, "bad apples" do spoil bunches, and bad experiences leave deeper impressions than good ones. This is why, in Good Boss, Bad Boss,
    I emphasize that the first order of business must be to get rid of or
    reform any supervisors who take a toll on employee well-being, dignity,
    commitment, and performance. Moreover, there is evidence that plenty of
    bosses are failing, in these tough times, to make work a joy. A survey early this year
    of a good representative sample of American workers found that only 45%
    of them were satisfied with their jobs. That marked a record low in the
    22 years the Conference Board has been asking. (Contrast it with 49% in
    2008 and 61% in 1987.) Only 51% of them were satisfied with their
    bosses (down from 55% in 2008 and 60% in 1987).

    But other evidence paints a less gloomy picture. For example, a recent poll [pdf]
    by StrategyOne of over 500 American workers finds that over 80% of
    employees feel respected by their supervisors and believe their
    supervisors value their work. And I just heard from a Danish journalist
    about an ongoing effort by staffing firm Randstad to index satisfaction and other work-related attitudes and behavior across 26 countries. While Japan, according to it,
    has the lowest satisfaction, with only 41% of its workers calling
    themselves either very satisfied or satisfied with their employer,
    Denmark tops the charts at 83%. (Note that there is other research that
    shows the Danes are the happiest people
    in the world.) US workers, while not as satisfied as their near
    neighbors the Canadians (78%) still came in at 70%. Worldwide, some 68%
    of employees are satisfied with their employer. (I realize this does not
    necessarily mean they are satisfied with their bosses. The old saw that people leave bosses, not companies, is supported by a lot of research.)

    Even when it comes to one of my favorite sins to preach against — the presence of jerks in management ranks (it's why I've unfortunately been referred to as "the asshole guy"), evidence offers a bright side. The excellent 2010 Zogby/Workplace Bullying Institute study showed
    that although 34.5% of respondents had experienced workplace bullying
    at some point in their career, fewer than 9% were currently experiencing
    it — a drop from the nearly 13% who reported being bullied in 2007.
    Bosses were meting out much of that abuse but not all of it. Most
    interesting to me is that half the sample (50%) reported they had never
    been bullied or even seen others bullied in their workplaces.

    Clearly, in light of all this research, you can see the glass as half
    full or half empty. But I have done much of my writing in the
    half-empty mode, critiquing bad bosses. In fact, I am even now drawing
    up my list of the "Top 11 Clueless, Comedic, and Cruel Bosses" based on
    the striking and sometimes disgusting examples that readers have
    provided here.

    I think it is important to focus on the good as well. As we've seen,
    even the most pessimistic evidence suggests that most bosses are
    managing to do a decent job. And some go much further than that.

    So let's take a moment to thank all the great bosses of the world. I would start with one of my own, Jim Plummer, the Dean of the Stanford School of Engineering. (If you want to know why I am so devoted to Jim, see Chapter 3 of Good Boss, Bad Boss.)
    Other bosses I've seen in action and singled out for praise have
    included Bonny Simi of JetBlue, David Kelley of IDEO, AG Lafley of
    P&G, Joel Podolny (now at Apple, but he was a great Associate Dean),
    Brad Bird of Pixar, Lenny Mendonca of McKinsey, and Whitney Mortimer of
    IDEO.

    Who are your favorites? In the spirit of this "glass half full" post,
    let's use the comments section here to compile a serious counterweight
    to all the coverage of clueless and crappy managers. Reflect for a
    minute on the best boss you've ever had, and then I would love to hear
    the story.

    P.S. This post first appeared last week at HBR.org under the title "The Not-So-Bad News About Bosses." I also want to give a big thank you to HBR's Julia Kirby for her splendid editing.  

  • New Study: Feeling Powerful Leads People to Dehumanize Others

    My last post about Boss Poop and the dozens of examples that people posted about Clueless and Comical Bosses (I will post a top 11 list later this week) provide cautionary tales that every person who wields power over others ought to pay attention to — because that clueless boss could be you.  As I have shown here and in Good Boss, Bad Boss, there is extensive and scary evidence that these stories reflect a tendency for people who oversee others, or who simply feel as if they have power, to become more concerned about their own needs, less concerned about the the needs of others, to act like the rules don't apply to them, and a host of other rather scary effects (although not all are bad… for example, power makes people more action oriented, which can be a good thing). 

    A new study — actually a series of intertwined experiments — just came out (and was summarized by our friends at BPS Research) that adds to the pile of evidence about power poisoning.  In short, this research shows that when people have power over others, or simply think about a time when they were powerful or role play being powerful, they tend to dehumanize others.  The third of the three studies in this article is summarized by BPS as follows:

    In a final study, Lammers and Stapel had 50 student participants
    role-play the position of senior surgeon, junior surgeon or nurse before
    making a treatment decision about their fictional patient – a
    56-year-old man with an abdominal growth. Those participants
    role-playing a more powerful position were more likely to opt for the
    painful but more effective of two treatment options. Moreover, the
    participants role-playing the senior surgeon role were more likely to
    show evidence of dehumanising the patient in a 'mechanistic' fashion –
    that is, rating him as more passive and less sensitive. The association
    between seniority of role and dehumanising was largely mediated by the
    decision to opt for the more painful treatment.

    See the link to read the rest of the summary. The authors emphasize that there are times when dehumanizing people isn't all bad because it can lead people in power to make "tough" decisions in a more rational fashion.  But as I said at the outset, this is just one more indication that a little power can be a very dangerous thing.

    P.S. A note in the spirit of evidence-based management.  This is just one little article that summarizes three studies, and yes it is artificial and does not measure what happens in real workplaces.  So like all research should not be taken as conclusive or the final word.  But it is interesting because adds it just one more twist to the pile of evidence of power poisoning.

    Here is the citation:

    Lammers, J., and Stapel, D. (2010). Power increases dehumanization. Group Processes and Intergroup Relations DOI: 10.1177/1368430210370042

  • Boss Poop: A Morality Tale From Author Jonathan Littman

    I have talked about author Jon Littman here before, as he has written a lot of books.  He co-authored gems including The Art of Innovation, Ten Faces of Innovation, and most recently "I Hate People." Jon has many talents, including writing in-depth stories about performance-enhancing drugs in sports on athletes including Barry Bonds and Lance Armstrong.  His current adventure is Snowballnarrative.com where he works with entrepreneurs and corporations to help them with branding and storytelling. 

    I ran into Jon at the speech I gave on Good Boss, Bad Boss at the Commonwealth Club in San Francisco last Monday night.  His reaction to the speech was to write a "morality tale" called "Boss Poop" for this blog — a true story that will definitely make my "top 11" list of the comic, clueless, and cruel acts of crappy bosses, along with examples from other Work Matters readers. Here is Jon's guest post.  I hope you love it as much as I do — I think his writing is beautiful.

    Boss
    Poop

    By
    Jonathan Littman


    We
    can learn from tales of bad bosses, and the most revealing of these stories
    have the resonance of classic Grimm’s fairy tales. They pack a moral within the
    framework of a frightening narrative. Sometimes they can be almost comical. At
    least for those who don’t have to suffer under a nightmare of a boss.


    Consider
    the long-time president and founder of a successful small Los Angeles
    advertising firm. Premiere Fortune 500 clients valued his company’s services.
    But the boss tended to treat his staff somewhere below his dog.

    Literally.

    The
    Boss’s wife used to occasionally visit the office. She was friendly and
    invariably brought the family dog, a cute spaniel.
     

    The
    staff dreaded these visits. Spot, as they nicknamed the dog, made clear this
    was his territory. He’d knock over things, mess up papers, generally wreak
    havoc, and interrupt work. And that wasn’t all. As if on cue, the dog always
    went potty during his visit. It was always a number 2. And Spot always left his
    present in front of someone’s door.

    This
    disgusted employees.  They saw it for what it was – a stinking metaphor
    for their predicament.  It screamed a direct and demeaning message about
    their lowly status. The boss’s wife never cleaned up her dog’s crap. That was a
    job for the employees.

    Then
    Spot did something exceptional, something that for one day made him a hero in
    the eyes of the downtrodden staff.  He padded right by all the employees
    and left a big present by the door of his owner, the boss.


    The
    wife left. The dog left. The present remained.

    Then
    the boss hopped on the office intercom. Taking command, he issued a general
    directive for the prompt removal of Spot’s present.  But this was
    like no other incident before. Not a single employee moved.

    The
    present remained in front of the boss’s door.


    The
    boss tried again and again.  Finally, he switched tactics.  One by
    one, over the speakerphone, for all to hear, he called upon virtually every
    staff member, encouraging them as individuals to rise to the challenge.


    This
    went too far. No one wanted to get fired, but there is a limit to how much
    humiliation most people will suffer at the office.  Not a single staff
    member responded to the boss’s insulting call for personal humiliation.
    Finally, the message got through.  Upon hearing her name, a shy, recently
    hired immigrant, rose obediently from her desk, bent before her boss, and
    scooped up the poop before her boss’s door.

    It
    sounds too bizarre to be true, like a modern day parable. But it gets worse. To
    further rub it in, so to speak, the boss cheerily got back on his speakerphone,
    and sang his praise of the poor woman’s good deed. She had delivered a lesson,
    he said, in “the value of dedication and teamwork.”


    Of
    course, this bizarre, company-wide degradation only served to ensure that the
    boss was even more roundly hated. Key employees soon quit. Sagging morale
    plummeted farther.
     

    The
    moral of this bad boss tale?

    Clean
    up your own messes. Especially, if you are the boss. 

  • U.S. News & World Report Interview: How to Manage a Bad Boss — And a Lame Economy

    When I was in New York last week, I had lunch with U.S. News & World Report writer Rick Newman — Rick is also the co-author of Firefight: The Battle to Save the Pentagon.  We had a rambling conversation, with about half of it focusing more or less on Good Boss, Bad Boss, and the other half on a collection of diverse topics.  I warned Rick several times "I have already told you %125 of what I know," but he smiled and pushed on, and said he would show me what he wrote when it was all over.  I made a few minor comments, but Rick really did a nice job of making my rather incoherent and disorganized comments make some sense in the posted interview.  Here is one of the topics I talked about with Rick that, to be honest, is opinion based rather than research based — although the layoff and unemployment numbers fit the plot line:

    What are the biggest changes affecting the workplace right now? The biggest change these days is probably the nature of the basic employment contract.
    Most companies don't have pensions anymore, you can take your 401(k)
    with you, there's no incentive to stay loyal. Layoffs are everywhere.
    HP never had layoffs until about 10 years ago. Even Google has had
    layoffs.

    Sometimes layoffs are an economic necessity. But there used to be a
    psychological contract: It used to be, we'll take care of you. Now it's
    more like: Take care of yourself and maybe we'll help if we're in a
    good mood. People criticize young people for having no loyalty and for
    going wherever they want. But why do they owe anybody loyalty? They and
    their parents have been treated like shit.

  • Censored New York Times Ad For The No Asshole Rule

    My publisher put the ad below in The New York Times and Wall Street Journal for the paperback version of The No Asshole Rule.   Calling it The No A****** Rule is better than calling it The No ******* Rule, as The Times did when the book was on their bestseller list in 2007. (I note that they are spelling out the whole title in their "extended" list, as the book is #15 on the paperback "Advice"  list, but they don't publish that in the paper — the real test will be if it makes it to number #10. I hope they at least call it The No A******* Rule).  In any event, I thought this ad was fun, and since my mother missed it, I wanted her to see it:

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