Best Business Bobs

I am honored to be on Jeremy Nulik's list of Best Business Bobs, but troubled to listed right below Bob Knight — yes, he is the most winning college coach ever (in terms of number of games), but he seems to qualify as a certified asshole (see Pam Slim's post).  Read Season in the Brink if you don't believe me — also look at this tape, it sure looks like he is choking a player to me (If you choked a subordinate, would they let you keep your job?) 

Back to the Bobs, it is such a meaningless name that I often don't turn my head when I hear the name. And one of the weirdest Bob things that ever happened to me was when, a long time ago, I was at a think tank (pre-Internet!) called The Center for Advanced Study in the Behavioral Sciences, a lovely place where we didn't even have phones in our offices. In my little building, there were six offices, a telephone room, and a bathroom. When a call came in,you would be buzzed to go to the phone room.  One day I as buzzed, and asked to give a talk at something called The Food Research Institute at Stanford (now defunct).  The day I got there to give the talk, I noticed that there was someone else's name on the door — another Bob! They had meant to invite one of the other Bob's (four of the six of us in this little building were named some variation of Robert).  I can't recall the right Bob's name, but he studied food production and consumption in developing countries. They suggested I give my talk anyway (which was on the stigma of bankruptcy), but within about 10 minutes, the 30 or so people in the room dwindled to 8 or 10.

It is easy to be the wrong Bob.

P.S. Check out the Mistake Bank, following John's comment below. It funny and apparently devoted to the notion that failure sucks but instructs!

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3 responses to “Best Business Bobs”

  1. John Caddell Avatar

    Bob, I love this story! I have a noncommercial site called The Mistake Bank (http://mistakebank.com) a learning site where people share stories of mistakes in their businesses and careers. I also post stories I find elsewhere… which leads to a question:
    would you mind if I reposted this story on The Mistake Bank (with attribution, of course)?
    thanks and regards, John

  2. LR Avatar
    LR

    Be honored to be next to Bob Knight–one of that nations true leaders in developing young men.

  3. Jeremy Nulik Avatar

    Bob –
    I love your story of mistaken Bobness. It is almost like they were happy to have any Bob.
    I did realize the irony in placing you on a list with Bobby Knight. I hope that you saw that I made note of it in the blog. And I want you to know the list was not in any particular order…so you are not less of a Best Bob than Knight.
    I guess that I have found in my trudging through a life full of assholes that they do sometimes have good things to offer the world. Underneath that exterior is often something of value. I would site chapter 6 of your book: The Virutes of Assholes, but I am sure you are quite familiar. 🙂
    Thanks for your inspiration and all that you put into the world.
    It was my hope that the list truly was an honor to what you do.
    -Jeremy

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