I got an interesting note from Franke James (pictured to the left) over at Office-Politics about a letter that she got from a reader. I offered some opinions about what this fellow should do, and Franke used them as part of her answer, which I thought was quite wise. Here is the letter:
Dear Office-Politics,
Greetings! I have quite the dilemma, though most people think it would be a dream. My old-supervisor answers to me now.
To make a long story short, the position of network manager was
created, and the network supervisor thought he was going to get it.
Unfortunately for him, he was written up too many times and was not
able to apply for the position. I fortunately was able to apply, and
due to my past experience and hard work, won the position.
My dilemma is…. I feel uncomfortable around this individual, given
his past history and the fact he was my boss at one point. I am sure he
harbors ill feelings towards me as well, unable to accept he was passed
over for promotion due to his own misdeeds (yes HR has talked to him and everyone about him).
How do I go about managing this individual? Is it possible to coach
this person? He fits the profile of author Robert Sutton’s definition of an Asshole: he drains everyone he deals with.
My old peers have accepted me as manager, but I feel resistance from
him and like he is being territorial. Being new to this position,
having been ‘test driven’ for 4 weeks, I’m still waiting for the
official announcement, even though I have been told by upper management
that I have the position. How should I approach this situation? I do
not want to be a commander this early as it could hurt my relationship
with my old peers (besides the announcement not being made yet), but
I’m afraid he may force me into it.
New Boss
This fellow is in a pretty complex situation. My take was that his former boss had been given plenty of chances and perhaps it was time to push the delete button, But Franke offered a more sophisticated and forgiving approach, and in re-reading the letter, I think she is right. You can see Franke’s wise answer here
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